Patience & Trust

In the name of Allah, The Most Gracious, The Most Merciful
Assalamualaikum

Title: Patience & Trust

Sisters, let this be a reminder for us.

If he's the right guy, he won't leave. Or maybe he will, but he'll come back soon. How soon is soon? That, I'm no so sure myself, but this is what I am pretty much certain about. See, if Allah wants the two of you to be together, no matter what that's gonna happen, the two of you, will end up being with each other eventually. Whatever that Allah wills to happen, will happen. It's all about sabr(patience) & tawakal(trust) in Allah swt, alone.

Patience and trust.

Patience and trust.

Patience and trust.

And if I may add, he may need to leave first, to endure trials and hardships which will only help to mould him, into a better man that you'll need. Sometimes, absence is needed, for us to grow, and to change. In the process of waiting, we'll learn about the right and the wrong. That way, we'll become a better person, insyaAllah.

So don't worry. Allah knows what is best for us. He knows what we need. & He certainly knows what that is better for our Deen. No man is perfect, but if you are looking for a man who is pious, a man who observes his 5 daily prayers, who practices the sunnahs, who is righteous and etc etc, we should first look, and reflect on ourselves. Have we done enough deeds, to deserve such an ideal man for a husband? If we ourselves, hardly even observe the 5 daily prayers, and if we don't even bother to practice the sunnahs of the Prophet Muhammad s.a.w, then what makes you think that Allah will give us a man, who is as pious as the companions of the Prophet?

It's time for us to reflect. Time to do a self-check. Have we been on the right track?