Assalamualaikum
Title: Darling, bring me to Jannah.
Question: How do you love someone for the sake of Allah? That's insane. I mean, yeah it's a beautiful thing but please, tell me. How do you do that?
Answer: Basically it's loving someone in a way that it pleases Allah and not to get a return from anyone, but Him, for that love.
In general...
Loving someone for the sake of Allah, often requires us to love someone who does not, or can not show their love to us. Loving each other in the silence, making doa' for each other, and that is actually enough for akhi A and ukhti A because in Allah, they trust. Then they leave the rest, to Allah to decide.
O dear self:
I'm not looking for love in each other. Well, at least not for now because I am still too young to be even thinking about marriage. I'm not looking for love in each other; I'm looking for love in Allah together. In the love of Allah, love will eventually come in naturally; because only when you love Allah, can you truly love a person. But having said that, one should note that love of Allah cannot be obtained unless one submits to Him. One cannot submit, until he humble's himself. And one will not humble himself, until he realises that Allah knows, what he knows not.
O Muslim sisters:
Don't be too hurried in love sweethearts. Find a companion who can guide not only in Dunya, but in akhirah as well. Find a companion who can pick you up when you fall, get you back up when you are down, remind you when you forget, love you with all his might, and will hold your hands through thick and thin, and bring you to Jannah insyaAllah. This serves as a reminder for myself too!
O muslim brothers:
When you want to mary a girl, the first thing you should look for, should be her faith in Allah. If she has that, give her a 1. Then, if she has beauty, add a zero to that 1. So now, you have a 10. For every good thing she has/or does, keep adding the zeroes in. For instance, does she have intelligence? If she does, then that'll make a 100. She has good mannerisms? That'll make a 1000. But dudes, if you take Faith(eeman) out, all you have left, is a bunch of zeroes.
O single muslims:
Allah has already written the name of your spouses for us. What we need to work on now, is to work on our relationship with Allah. He will send her/him to you, when you're ready. It's only a matter of time. ['=
Do you doa' & do your solat isthikharah if you have to; as you go in search for your Khadija to your Muhammad, and vice-versa. Remember folks: Verily, doa is the greatest weapon of a believer.
" O Allah, protect my eeman, & keep me strong. "
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